New Year's Day is a very good day to think about this. Many have that shaggy, slightly pained outlook on the day from a bit (or more than a bit) of the merry, merry clinky-drinky last night. And why not? It is the western world's mass culture day for celebration - a holiday that really only celebrates celebration. Do any of you actually care that the last numeral has shift from an 8 to a 9? Even with the approval that accompanies our tradition, however, I am not entirely comfortable with over doing it and ofter the standards of others and sometimes myself as to what falls short of over doing it. A friend once described his resulting gnawing remorse as something he had to work on. Perhaps he was speaking from a point in his life where choosing to have a beer was for him a little bit of a play on the idea of choice. I think this is a bit more common than we would like to think - it is not for nothing that I have a picture of a monkey up there from time to time. So, it is with support but not whole-hearted agreement that I read Lew's thoughtful response to one anonymous comment maker who asked the question "why?" - especially the outset of the response which started with this characterization of the questioner:
This screed sums up a lot of what passes for anti-alcohol, New Dry "thought:" everyone who drinks is a drunk, the only reason people drink is to get blind drunk, children will all drink alcohol at every opportunity, alcohol is an evil that society must be protected from by the government and societal strictures, and life can be enjoyed without alcohol. As such, it deserves a response. "Anonymous," here's my look at "Why We Drink."
Pretty strong stuff. Lew and Jay and others talk about the "New Dry" movement and, to be fair, I think it is something that really has and has historically had far less traction up here in Canada given the limited reach the more general idea of social conservatism has in the Great White North. Conversely, I am not as worried by efforts of organizations like MADD to raise awareness of the dangers of drinking. I think I have to admit I do believe that too much drinking is very dangerous and I think Lew and Jay would agree in large part. But I am also tired of the slew of limited release beers that are all too strong, overloaded beer fests that go on too long in the day and social lives that revolve around having that drink. I have found myself leaving sessions far earlier than others for some time now, finding the second half of the night far less interesting than the outset. And I try to make sure there are many non-drinking activities in the social calendar hopefully giving beer the place somewhere closer to a treat than a daily necessity.
But that is just me. It seems entirely natural to me that someone like Lew's anonymous comment maker would see some drinking habits and some scenes in bars odd and distasteful. Frankly, I would complain to a bar manager, too, if I saw an eleven year old sneak over to clean off the remains of a beer at an abandoned table. Actually, I would have likely just dealt with the boy myself, standing up and intervening before the first sip. Does that make me a prude or blind to a danger to my liberty? I don't think so. But that is just me.
What do you think?






Comments
Amy - January 1, 2009 10:12 PM
Alan, I read the anonymous comment and Lew's response. The commenter conflated any drinking with excessive drinking but it wasn't a screed. His point was that he felt there was a double standard around smoking and drinking. Lew called him a "New Dry" without much to back it up. In his response Lew claimed that society is anti-alcohol; one piece of evidence for this he said was "sin taxes". However further down in his response he said one benefit of liquor was taxes. I don't think America is deeply anti-alcohol or deeply pro; it is basically ambivalent. The arguments many beer bloggers make against both taxes and alcohol control proponents are very reminiscent of arguments the liquor industry has used since the late nineteenth century. I think everyone can agree that alcohol is a psychoactive and potentially addictive substance that should be used carefully and with moderation. To pretend other wise is disisngenous
LewBryson - January 1, 2009 11:56 PM
Alan, Amy,
I acknowledged early and at some length in my post that alcohol is potentially dangerous, and that it's psychoactive. To pretend otherwise is not just disingenuous, it's duplicitous. Yet...we drink. Why do we drink? That's the question. Not "Why do we get drunk?" I thought I made that clear; apparently I was not clear enough. To overlook the part of my post that acknowledges the dangers of alcohol, though...is similarly disingenuous.
Alan, the "comment maker" wasn't talking about drinking in a bar, he was talking about lunch at a family-oriented chain restaurant, two very different situations. The man had two beers, and in a Fuddrucker's, it's hardly likely that they were over 5%. Was he drunk before he got there? I don't know, neither do you, and I would submit that a man who's never had a drink in his life is not the best possible judge of drunken behavior.
If someone gets up to go to the bathroom, what is their responsibility over the beer they've left on their table? Don't they have the right to assume that their drink, bought and paid for, would be left alone, just as their food would be? The "aka: loser" here is the kids' parent. I'd have reacted the same way as you to the 11 year old sneaking the beer, Alan: but that wasn't really what I was writing about. That's a whole other post.
Amy, I'm sorry, but I think you're splitting a few hairs here. Whether or not "screed" was the precise word choice isn't a major issue; I think it fits, you don't, editor's choice. But his point was hardly a double standard around smoking and drinking, any more than it was about a double standard around drinking and gay marriage. The smoking issue was illustrative. His point was that too many people are drunk -- by his standards -- in this country; he made that point at least four times.
Your comment about the sin tax situation isn't clear either. I don't like sin taxes -- to be sure, I don't like any excise taxes; I think they're unfair, and have been a bad idea since their inception -- and when I did mention them as a benefit, I did add, parenthetically, "unfortunately," because sin taxes are a fact of life. They are a steady revenue stream for the government, and will never go away. I'd even go so far as to admit that calling them "sin taxes" is hypocritical; they're just taxes. But they always come cloaked in anti-drinking rhetoric.
And if the arguments I use are reminiscent of arguments used by the liquor industry since the late nineteenth century...so what? Why is that necessarily a bad thing, or something that undercuts the argument?
Amy, Alan: why do you drink?
Alan - January 2, 2009 12:26 AM
Without avoiding that question, I think the more interesting question is why do we care why we drink. As I said above, I think this is a particularly American question so I really do not want to suggest in a backhanded way that I am still judging. But, you know, I have never smoked and I have never felt a tinge of guilt for eating meat - lambs in fields make me salivate. Those are the only other habits of consumption (except perhaps over consumption) that I might compare to drinking. While I may have other sins, I don't dwell on them like I do those related to intake. I wonder how cultural my feelings about how I feel about drinking is.
And, with respect Lew, I don't know anyone who drinks only because of and in the manner suggested by the black headings in your post. I know more people who drink because of stress, boredom, habit, release, to forget and to remember and any number of other somewhat sad sides of life and I really don't think that the overlay of "craft" dramatically alters it. It might even shelter it for many.
Again, for me, I am so distant from the idea of the neo-prohibitionists and concern for their political power that I think I am seeing this from a different point of view...but not necessarily a better one, certainly. You just got me thinking.
LewBryson - January 2, 2009 12:36 PM
It is an interesting question you pose...and it kind of comes back to a meta-question that keeps coming up here and on other similar blogs -- why do we care/write/think about much of this stuff? Why not just enjoy the beer? There are easy and difficult answers to it all.
I am glad the post engendered thinking; I was only irked a bit because it seemed as if you and Amy had deliberately ignored my acknowledgment of the dangers of drinking. It wasn't there as a figleaf. I think overserving is the worst thing that goes on in North American bars, and it would be a major step forward if we could find a set of policies and behavior modifications that could lessen it. I also believe that brewers/vintners/distillers ignore it at their peril.
As to why I drink, it's been an evolution, as with most things in our lives. At one time I drank for other reasons. Now...I honestly do drink for those reasons on almost all occasions, along with simple refreshment.
You are probably right that the question I pose is an American one. But it looks like the UK and even France are beginning to struggle with it as well.
LewBryson - January 2, 2009 12:37 PM
Oh, and by the way: glad you got rid of the "I'm human" test. Those things are really annoying. Not sure when you did it, but I thought I'd thank you.
Alan - January 2, 2009 2:26 PM
Oops!!!
I'd be irked too because I have left a typo up there. When I wrote "[s]o, it is not with support but not whole-hearted agreement that I read Lew's thoughtful response" I doubled the "not"s. I have amended out the "not supporting" idea.
Alan - January 2, 2009 2:32 PM
There, that is better.
You know I am still after almost six years dealing with the "why do I write on these blogs of mine" question, which is sort of meta-meta-why-beer, if you think about it. But because I have to basically plan my access to beer fairly deliberately (given a lack of a pub life, lack of a vibrant local brewing scene, too many kids around the knees and not much time to travel) it is the question that keeps coming back.
Lew Bryson - January 2, 2009 2:51 PM
That is better. I suspected -- hoped! -- that's what you meant.
Meta-meta-why-beer? We're not going to go round and round in these circles till we disappear up our own butts, are we?
Randy - January 6, 2009 4:05 PM
It's an interesting conversation that I generally sum up with: it's not anyone's responsibility to govern what I do to myself as long as I am not harming someone else. Past that you could ask a million questions on why anyone does anything that they do. There are all sorts of strange things people willing do to themselves and to each other. We can argue that we don't like its impact on society but that argument holds no more weight than saying that people who seek to control others have a negative impact on society.
I am not a child's parent. If the child is not mine it is not my place to correct them. I may inform the person who was impacted but more than that it's easier to remove myself from the situation. It may seem apathetic but if I don't want people in my business then it only makes sense that I will not get in their own.
People struggle with this question because it is easier to point out and correct the shortcomings of others than to look at oneself and correct the flaws they have full control over. The American society has long been a litigious one that has created an air of judgment and correction. The Puritanical laws still exist to this day. We escaped tyranny to become free and in the process created more rules to restrict freedom. Why? Well we are lazy. We don't want to teach responsibility because that takes effort. It is easier, once again, to blame someone else for the problem and move on.
Why is alcohol a problem? Because we disrespect it. We've created events called football games where it is socially acceptable, nay, socially required, to show up 4 hours early and drink until one cannot remember what the event was they attended. The problem did not occur overnight and certainly the resolution is not to ban alcohol. The solution is to understand alcohol, respect alcohol, and consumption will reduce itself. Our restriction of alcohol consumption only serves to fuel this fire as the more something is restricted the more desirable it become to many people. Those with "inhibition problems" will go to great lengths to obtain the alcohol.
Is it too late to solve the problems? Who knows. We'll never know unless we try and are willing to accept some radical new thinking which most people, sadly, are not open to. It means accepting their own weakness and accepting their own role in this mess and then looking to right the ship. It sounds like I am preaching that we should be more involved in everyone's lives, but it's not. I would like to reiterate that it should be incumbent upon all people to work inside their own home to make society better. Then, when you wrong society, the rules should be in place to bring swift and definitive justice to correct it. You need an identity, and we don't have it. We have conservative rules with a liberal judicial system. Interesting and just a bit delusional.
Anyway... I ramble :)
Alan - January 6, 2009 10:35 PM
Maureen has thoughts about this as well.